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Things You Can Do To Help Yourself

If you’ve recognised that your behaviour has caused harm in your relationships, then you have already taken the first step towards change. Here are some things you can do to begin adjusting your behaviour on your journey.

Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, and it’s never too late to change.

Talk to a Mate

A problem shared is a problem halved. Chat to your mates about how you’ve been feeling. You can also connect with support groups specifically designed for people on a similar journey to you. Sharing your experiences and thoughts with others can help you to feel heard and understood, as well as boosting accountability and motivation. We offer group support sessions, as well as one-to-one sessions, as part of our support programmes.

Consider Emotional Management

Learn and practice effective emotional management techniques. Emotional management can help to give you healthier ways of expressing and coping with your emotions without resorting to abusive behaviour. Our specialist support can help you with this.

Do Things You Enjoy

Activities such as exercise, hobbies and socialising can help reduce stress levels, and will bring a more positive mindset. Filling your cup with positive experiences can make it easier to deal with triggers, negative emotions and stressful situations.

Check In With Yourself

Every now and then, reflect on how you’ve been doing, note any challenges you’ve had, any negative situations you’ve been in, and how you dealt with them. Think about what triggered you during these situations and whether you can avoid these in the future.

Join a Specialist Support Programme

Our range of support programmes can give you the tools and knowledge that you need to understand your behaviour, better manage your emotions, strengthen your relationships, and move on from your abusive behaviour for good. We can also support you with self-reflection and goal-setting. Click here to find out more about the support we offer, and the benefits from referring yourself to Freeva’s Jenkins Project.

Remember, this journey requires dedication and perseverance, but you’ve got this. We understand it can be hard, but seeking help is key to creating a more positive future for yourself. We can provide you with a judgment-free space to speak to someone about your feelings and experiences.

If you’re ready to use your strength to change, not control, contact our team today: 0116 254 0101

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More Tips & Tools for Change

We know it can be hard to accept that your behaviour may be hurting your loved ones. If you’re not ready to speak to someone about your behaviour, we have a range of information and resources available for you to read and use in the meantime.
Domestic Abuse
Are you concerned that you may be using abusive behaviour towards someone you love? If so, you’re in the right place. Firstly, let’s talk a bit more about what domestic abuse can look like.
The Impact of Abuse
Find out more about the impact of domestic abuse on loved ones, including emotional, psychological, isolation, financial and social impact.
Seeking Support
Looking to change abusive behaviour shows strength, asking for help shows strength. Finding out more about our services is a big stride towards healthier relationships.

Read our latest blog articles for further information.

Real Life Stories

Feeling nervous about taking those first steps and reaching out to us? We understand how you might be feeling, so we’ve provided you with some case stories below of the real life people we’ve supported through our services and how we’ve made a real imapct to them and their families.
"I will forever be grateful for how Freeva have supported Ash through such a difficult time." Find out how Freeva's services helped Ash and their family.
Women's Programme
Marie called Freeva’s helpline and spoke with a friendly support worker who guided her through weeks of support. Find out how Freeva's services helped her and her family.
"Freeva didn’t just help him cope with the sexual abuse, but they also took into account the other factors that were affecting his life." Find out how Freeva's services helped James and his friend.
What is Sexual Abuse
Tom grew concerned about his best friend, Alex, after he didn't show up for his birthday party and distanced himself from all his friends. Find out how Tom saved Alex from an abusive relationship with the help and support of Freeva.
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